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Happy Friday, Reader! Last week we talked about the homework "pipeline": hear it β write it down β start it β finish it β turn it in. I said the last step is often the easiest leak to fix. For many families, the turn-in step is exactly where things fall apart. Your kid did the worksheet. You watched them do it. And a week later, it's still at the bottom of the backpack, folded into a tiny triangle. So this week, here's the fix. It costs about a dollar. π The Action Folder Take any sturdy two-pocket folder (plastic lasts longer than paper) and label the pockets:
The rule: the right pocket should be empty by the time your child leaves school. If it isn't, something got missed, and you'll find out that afternoon instead of three weeks later in the portal. π§ Why it works when "just remember to turn it in" doesn't Turning something in requires your child to remember, at the right moment, in a busy classroom, that a specific paper exists somewhere in their bag. That's a lot of memory work at the worst possible time. The folder turns that memory job into something they can see. A full right-hand pocket is a visible reminder. In my coaching, I call this putting the information outside the brain so it doesn't have to hold it. It's like the difference between remembering to buy milk and seeing the empty carton on the counter. One relies on memory. The other reminds you without you having to try. π The same folder at three ages
β οΈ One tip from experience: The folder only works if it lives in one consistent place in the backpack and travels to every class. A folder that stays in a locker becomes a museum. π¬ Where the Action Folder came fromThe Action Folder is one piece of a bigger system I taught at last week's Reset the Semester workshop, called the Home Base. That's one spot where backpacks, papers, and the morning scramble all land. We also covered a way for kids to capture what's due (one they'll actually use) and a 20-minute weekly family meeting that helps everyone see the week before it happens. Each system is shown at all three age levels, with a free printable to help you get started. Both replays are waiting inside Building Savvy Parents:
β³ One week left for the founding rate. Building Savvy Parents is $27/month or $259/year. Anyone who starts their free week by next Friday, October 30, keeps that founding rate for as long as they stay, even if their trial ends after the 30th. The fine print, so there are no surprises: Skool asks for a card to start the free week. Nothing is charged until day eight, and canceling takes two clicks (Settings β Billing β Cancel). π Get the replays and lock in the founding rate:https://www.skool.com/building-savvy-learners/aboutβ Have a great weekend! P.S. Know a parent who's having the "but I DID it" argument this week? Forward this along. A one-dollar folder might save you both a few arguments. π |
Alison is an executive function coach, teacher, and mom who has a Ph.D. in Educational Administration and Policy. Her research centered on social media and teacher learning. She spent 15 years teaching in public schools. She now spends her time blogging and working with students, parents, and teachers to use technology responsibly and develop kids' executive function skills.
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